Soft Launching a New Job & a Tiny Letter from Me!


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I’m excited to announce I’ve joined Patreon as their Head of Marketing. It’s an amazing company and this opportunity is nothing short of a dream!

One of my goals in looking for a new role was to find a place that was as mission-driven as Nima and one where I had a deep personal connection. I’m really passionate about helping creators, whether it’s buying pieces of jewelry from an up-and-coming (now established) designer Vanessa Gade, watching my own dear husband Jeff Rider create comics, or supporting various creators via online platforms or supporting their creations in person. Creators broaden our minds, approach the world in novel ways, and help us to forge our own connections with larger events in the world. I can’t wait to help creators engage with their fans and build their ability to have sustainable creative lives.

So what is a soft launch when it comes to work?

Things came together fairly quickly at Patreon and I wanted to start right away, but there were two personal trips I’d already planned: one to take our daughter to college and the second to go to New York during ComicCon. I didn’t want to delay the start date forever though because getting up to speed in an existing business takes time and it’s tricky to get into the rhythm of any new organization. Given that it’s already October and in about 8 weeks we’ll be hitting the holidays, and in the midst of that lies Patreon’s annual conference PatreCon, I wanted to get going right away.

In speaking with Adam Fishman, it was clear that there was a way to do both: a soft launch. Come in for a few days before getting a really robust start, taking some time to think about all the things I really wanted to know before that momentous all-in time. I could dig into all manner of historical documents, have 1:1 meetings, review current product and marketing plans, and really begin to understand the culture and all things Patreon. Once you’ve had the time to be a sponge, you can start “officially” start work well informed and energized. In this soft launch time period, I asked for a bunch of documentation and background from Adam, the rest of the team spent a ton of time pulling together all sorts of current and historical information for me, the new work computer got set up with access to key tools (and you know that stuff takes a while), and I am learning even more about the fantastic culture the company has built. It also gave me a few days to spend in the office so I know where things are – bathroom locations, how people know when lunch is served, and which Slack channels are the most relevant for work and amusement. Most importantly, it gave me a chance to sit with all the members of the marketing team and observe how they’re working through some things, and helps me to think about how we can talk all these awesome people and their experiences to bring the Patreon story to even more creators, so they can live the creative lives they’ve earned.

From the team perspective, this also gives them time to think about how we can best work together, what they need from me, and to begin absorbing how my perspective and experiences bring some different experiences to the team. Plus a little breathing room.

Trying new things in onboarding for the team

One thing I did do in the eight days before starting was to send an email a day with random stories and facts about me, just so they could get to know me. I’ve never done anything like this before, but the idea just sort of popped into my brain and it wouldn’t shake loose. Just like online dating, when someone new joins a company, you know something about them, but you have no context. You have no shared history (unless you worked with them before) and it’s hard to know what a person does outside of work that influences their work. So everyday there was a note (sometimes a missive). It covered everything from stories about friends to stupid facts about the Hogwarts house Pottermore assigned me. I’ve decided to put some of these into a TinyLetter with a goal of sending one every 2 – 3 weeks. You can sign up at, with the first missive going out this Friday, which talks more about my own path to patronage and why. One interesting thing about this project was that I realized I was sharing stories I hadn’t shared with people who have known me for years, so maybe now is the time to rectify that. It was a good practice and it also gives the team a chance to share their stories with me as we begin our work together.

So onward for creators of all types!

P.S. We’re hiring at Patreon, come work with me!

Carla on the Road: 2016 Edition


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Hey good folks, I’ll be on the road again this year! I’ve got various trade shows and events with team Nima. We have a blast going around the country talking to folks and getting the chance to hear people’s stories first hand.

I’ll also be doing a mentor session at SXSW 2016 on Monday, March 13th.  Come join me and we’ll talk marketing, consumer insights, and analytics.

SXSW Music 2015


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Every year I’ve attended SXSW music, I’ve produced a list of my favorite shows in some sort of rank order. This year, it was evident that shows flowed more into categories than into any nice list.

My bias is to try and see smaller bands that may not come through San Francisco any time soon, and to avoid bigger shows.

By the Numbers

Before leaving for Austin, I listened to 345 bands. (My average is generally about 500 – 600, so super behind this year.) There’s always some from the first release of bands that don’t show, so it can be tricky. From this initial list, there were about 45 I said “these would be really good to see” and another hundred or so that I would be somewhat interested in seeing. I try to find bands known for live shows and my penchant is to focus on bands that will have energy and performance rather than just music I enjoy.

I saw 36 bands this year across day shows, shows at ACC (when your feet are tired and your body is too, these can be a good relief, even if they are a weird venue), and evening shows.

Two bands that I saw twice: Best Coast and Spring King

We were there Tuesday – Friday, so four days of music!


Overrated bands: Gengahr, Viet Cong, Hinds, The Cribs, Public Access TV. While I’ve enjoyed listening to all of them before a show, there just wasn’t a lot going on in the performances themselves. These are bands that have great singles, but just not a lot of energy or differentiation from recorded music to their live shows. That doesn’t mean I won’t listen to them again, merely that I wouldn’t go out of my way to see them live.

Best match of band and venue: Best Coast, outdoors at the Palm Door on 6th. This is a band who is entirely enjoyable outdoors, while you are drinking beer and singing along with them. Their lyrics aren’t particularly deep, but the songs are fun, and you’ll be humming them for days.

Best new discovery: Spring King, they are just tight.

Bringing the energy: No doubt about it, the Flatstock stage is always tough. People show up and are extremely tired or hungover, or both. People tend to sit and not dance or crowd the space — but it’s always a good place with a small crowd when you need a bit of a respite and want to pay lots of attention to the music. We managed to see two great bands who managed to still bring energy and performance despite the venue: Skinny Lister and Whiskey Shivers. Both made me want to dance and had my toes tapping and head bobbing, even seated :)

Bands that were pretty much what I expected, solid & good: Alvvays, Girlpool

Way better than expected: Wardell, Lazyeyes, Michael Rault. I love the vibe in Wardell, a brother and sister group. You could see the sibling in-jokes. They have a touch of sweet goofiness that made their show really fun. Lazyeyes have modernized shoegaze and am downloading their EP to listen on repeat. Michael Rault was just really solid, really good. I regretfully left his show a few minutes early to head to the next thing and regretted it as soon as I got there.

Holy cow, how am I just seeing them?: Deerhoof

Best lyrics: Mike Posner – he only played 3 or 4 songs, but his lyrics were definitely deep and meaningful. Guess he’s putting all that hit writing to use for himself again.

Bands I’m sorry to have missed: Bleachers, Girl Band, Leon Bridges

Funniest banter: I went to see Girl Band (who have no decent online presence – I only managed to find mention of two band members here), and found it was a four piece all female punk band from SF (not the one from Dublin previously noted). The lead singer admitted that the entire band was slightly drunk. Each song was your classic 1:45 or 2:00 number with typical punk yowls. After each song, in a breathy voice that was mismatched with her vocals, the lead singer sweetly said “Thanks guys!”

Best show: Screaming Females. Hands down, this was a great show. The set was energetic and frenetic. The rest of the band is great, but lead singer Marissa Paternoster is clearly the heart of the band. She showed up onstage in a sweet little black dress and completely subverted the Junior League-y-ness of it by shredding on the guitar and singing up a storm. Normally it wouldn’t be something to mention, but on the other hand, every outfit a band wears says something. The subversion of putting on this performance in a 50s style LBD made it much more of a statement about what we expect of women, particularly in music. Thank you Marissa.

One final question for all the bands: Where are your newsletters? Your messages get lost in social media but if you have a newsletter that is just about you, I’m way more able to keep in touch.

Thanks guys!

What I Get from Checking References


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Over the years as I’ve checked prospective employees’ professional references, the responses I’ve gotten have included delight and surprise. Why? The approach I take and the way I pose questions to those providing references seems to be a bit different from the norm. My queries get to a valuable place and provide really good perspective on new potential hires.

NB: This does come from experience working primarily for technology companies in a competitive hiring environment, so other industries will offer other experiences or perspectives.

First off, you shouldn’t be using references to ascertain the skill level of a possible new hire. There are better ways to do that. Test your prospective employees with in-office assessments, pay for spec work on a project, and conduct the right kind of technical interview for the position (this applies to designers, marketers, analysts, engineers, or any job that requires a specific expertise). Likewise, If you’re using references to “find dirt” or confirm facts, you’re wasting an opportunity. Do a full blown background check using an outside firm. If you want to get additional insight beyond official references, do a search on LinkedIn or other social networks for mutual connections and talk to them.

What *should* you use references for?

This is the starting point for the fundamental difference in my approach.

Let’s start with an example and assume that you’ve done your technical interview and the candidate has passed with flying colors. You’ve established your leading candidate’s bona fides. The team has deemed it a good cultural fit. You’re close to making an offer. You want to ensure two things: that the employee signs this offer and that they are on board they will be both successful and happy. You want to hire someone who is going to stay for some time because searching, interviewing, and hiring takes a lot of time AND once folks come on board, they acquire valuable institutional knowledge that can be detrimental to lose.

So what do I ask?

There are four key lines of questioning.

  1. What makes this person happiest in the workplace? How I can I help them to be happy? What helps them to produce effectively and with joy?
  2. What things should I know about work style and process?
  3. What are some ways I can address specific issues that came up during the interview process? These issues are not stoppers, mind you.
  4. What can I and the company do to help the person grow overall, both in their chosen field and as a business person?

You may note the focus here is positive. Often times people are reticent to serve as a reference due to concerns they are going to be asked for negative feedback. When I begin the conversation and explain this will be the direction of the reference conversation, people audibly relax. If they are willing to serve as a reference, they obviously think highly of the candidate and want to help them. However, previous employers and co-workers also understand that none of us are perfect and that we’re all best served by managers, employers, and co-workers who understand how to help us achieve our best at work. By asking a reference these positive questions, you give them the freedom to open up and help both you and your potential hire.

Let’s take each of these in turn.

Workplace Happiness

This is a really provocative question. It forces the person answering the question to really think about an employee, their quality of work, the speed at which they do it, and the joy in which they accomplish it. I’ve gotten all manner of answers from “this person gets bored quickly, so find lots of challenges” to “they like to learn new things” to “they need a lot of in the moment feedback.” Those are all invaluable to setting up the tasks an employee has on their plate. I’ve also heard things like “this person likes a lot of routine, so set up structured tasks.” Soliciting specific examples helps me to understand ways to structure a work environment. A pair of headphones for the audibly sensitive is well worth the investment for an engineer who gets easily distracted. A shifted work day wherein someone leaves at 3pm, takes a break and resumes work later in the evening may pay dividends for a designer who needs to exercise mid-day to stay motivated.

Work Style and Process

When we get into process, it’s important to understand differing styles. Does someone need to work solo for a while and then have a check in, or might they want to have daily check-ins? You may find some people like thorough documentation while others will soak up a quick chat and move along from there. From your conversation, you’ll learn what adjustments you might need to make to your current process, or where you might have to encourage someone to work in a different manner. This means for some employees I have weekly check-ins that are formal sit down sessions and others grab me at times when they need help. While some managers believe employees should bend to them, it rarely produces awesome results — or any loyalty. It’s also good to understand how people prefer to communicate. Are they heavy into chat/messaging? Is email better? What about face to face? Knowing this before someone walks in the door means you can put the right tools into place.

Questions Based on the Interview

This is definitely the thorniest set of questions. I want to underscore that if you have reached the point where you are checking references, you should be really serious about hiring this employee. This set of questions is meant to clarify something you interpreted in an interview. In one case I interviewed an engineer who didn’t like to ship with too many known issues. Most engineers feel this way. So how much was this engineer going to push back in times when shipping may be a priority? What are the types of things he deemed unshippable? How about the analyst I wanted to hire who tended to spend more time on qualitative than quantitative research? Was this because of the demands of the previous job or a comfort level? Can they provide some context for the rationale of certain projects that the employee handled? While these aren’t make or break points in deciding to bring someone on (again, you’re well past that decision),it’s information that details where to spend coaching time with the new hire.

Personal Growth for the Employee

This is the most important set of questions, and it can feel nebulous to some people, so I provide examples of what I mean. I explain that growing an employee is about both technical expertise and general business acumen. What can they share with me in regards to this person? In some cases, people have suggested a potential employee be encouraged to attend meetups or go to classes to acquire additional valuable skills. Other times they’ve suggested specific types of projects.

The recommendations that arise most frequently center on soft skills.

I want this sentence to stand apart because it gets at the core of growing good business people. Especially in technology when people have good engineering, design, marketing, community, and analytical skills, the thing that makes candidates stand out from one another is the soft skills.

Specifically with regards to these, one of the most common recommendations is to teach people how to sell their ideas. They need to understand not only how to persuade, but how to research and provide the data and the story to get a team to see why one path is better than another. There are some recommendations that cut across certain categories of roles. Many designers, when providing a reference for another designer, will say something like “they get really wedded to a design so you may need to un-stick them.” For engineers I’ve heard “involve them more with product decisions so they can understand the big picture.” It can be as common as “they need to learn how to manage up better.” Obviously, these are generic, but you get the idea.

Then there are people who don’t want to move into a management track, so references have mentioned that these folks need to continue to feel valued in their role and to help identify room for satisfaction in that way. Some will suggest the prospective employee be cultivated as a people manager, others may suggest a path forward as a distinguished individual contributor. These are all very different ways to bring on an employee and to think about them in the long term.

These final questions tend to be received as more unusual than the others, but it also makes people happy. Recently,  in response to some inquiries for an engineering hire, someone commented “this is ambrosia to my ears.”

Final Steps

Once I’ve had about 3 conversations, I type up notes for the managerial team. This loops in not only me as the direct manager, but those to whom the individual in question will have dotted line responsibilities. In well run organizations, everyone is responsible for growing employees. Putting specific plans in place in advance and thoughtful hiring make it that much easier to onboard someone and to ensure their first weeks provide a smooth transition. It also provides an initial template for how to spend time coaching in those early weeks and sets the groundwork for the long term cultivation and retention of an employee.

In One Sentence

See the people you’re hiring as whole people.

Personal Food Identity


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Ever since starting at 6SensorLabs, I’ve been thinking a lot about food, specifically about how often people simply can’t eat certain foods. This thinking has also brought to the forefront how much food & identity are intertwined.

So, I wanted to expand a bit on the short food identity I wrote about in my bio.

I believe sharing a meal is a foundational experience. My parents come from two different backgrounds: my father is Italian, my mother is a Southerner. Both cultures are strongly centered on socializing and sharing when it comes to food. I don’t care if it’s just sandwiches on napkins, or a fine dining experience where we’ve broken out the “good stuff.” Meals are for ingesting conversation and food. I will admit to eating lunch quietly at my desk on many days, just to crank through it, but I wish this were less often the case.

I practice a lacto-ovo vegetarian diet. I’ve not had red meat, game, or pork for 30+ years and haven’t touched fish or chicken in about 17. I rarely hesitate to ask about the ingredients of a dish in a restaurant, and I read labels carefully before putting something in the grocery cart.

I believe the healthiest foods are those that are made from scratch. Cooking is sharing love with your friends and family, and my love of cooking has spurred me to much experimentation.

To keep the work week simple (and to appeal to teenage palates), there’s a short list of go to dishes that appear on our family table week in and week out. These include beans and rice, pasta, salad, soup, roasted vegetables, sautéed vegetables, seitan, fresh veggies, and whatever looked good at the Farmers Market that week. In other words, the genius of vegetables in all their forms!

We live in a part of the country where it’s easy to hit the Farmer’s Market and grab what’s seasonal. We try to avoid canned or frozen vegetables. Yes, this is a *huge* luxury, and I’m incredibly grateful.

Leftovers are good. Especially for lunch. Leftovers after three days should be tossed. Five at most. I’ve even adopted using food that’s a touch stale but not necessarily spoiled into our dog’s diet. Our whole family eats food that comes from great ingredients!

Tea is my preferred stimulant. Dark teas, like a really good Assam, or just a nice English breakfast tea blend make me happy. On a day to day basis, it’s generally PG Tips in my cup.

I have a two donuts a year rule. Last year’s Blue Star Buttermilk Donut in Portland could almost make me want to change this.

I try to have only one soda a month. This is a little tricky if cocktails are involved, because sometimes a ginger beer and bourbon is good for what ails ya, but outside of that I generally avoid soda.

Foods I avoid apart from dead animal flesh? Beets. Yeah, I know, they are supposed to be tasty. To me, they taste like dirt. Another thing I avoid: HFCS. Yuck. It’s in everything. Extraneous, unpronounceable ingredients that are nothing more than chemicals are also yuck.

I’m allergic to truffles and truffle oil. As a result, I eat less mushrooms than perhaps I should.

I also know it’s a delight to explore various cuisines. My favorites: Burmese, Caribbean, Cuban, Ethiopian, Italian, Indian, Mexican, Middle Eastern, Pakistani, Persian, Thai, Turkish, Vietnamese. Anything that combines things. Again, these cuisines are best with ingredients that are fresh, and involve lots of vegetables.

My favorite meal is probably pizza and salad.

Cocktails and non-alcoholic special drinks are a great way to pass some time with friends. As much care goes into cocktail making as food making in our house. It’s a fun thing.

My family has practically adopted the chorus “We already know dinner is going to have salad, what *else* are we having?” Salad is delicious and allows for great variety.

Ice cream is wonderful. It’s probably my favorite dessert. Chocolate ice cream, on the other hand, is horrible.

As this comes from my fingers, the thing that springs to mind is how much I appreciate food and the abundance of it I get to enjoy. While it may seem restrictive to some, my food choice and allergies don’t limit me, they help define me.  For those with multiple allergies and sensitivities, it must feel freeing to know what they can and can’t eat to feel good. It’s one of the reasons the work we’re doing at 6SensorLabs is so compelling.